Marriage a Sin or a Boon!

!Marriage a Sin or a Boon

Marriages are made in heaven! what could that great saying mean? An Eve for Adam was sent by god.  So, does he match the so called ideal couples may be.  Can there be one ideal couple to quote from the real world and more so in today's world of gadgets?  I have always wondered what an ideal couple would mean.  Does it mean that they never quarrel, never show their ego on each other?.  No, ideal is when they stand for each other particularly in times of trouble.  There was an article I read on high rising divorce rates.  The article quoted lack of communication, misunderstandings, career clashes as some of the primary reasons.  

It is said that, at times of trouble the bondage of love builds stronger as one proves to the other that he or she is there even where the whole world is against.  In this fast moving wold, there is lack of time for sharing moments to show affection, to show love and care. How many of us still write poetic lines to express love after marriage.  Be it child or adult, we are so busy in the world of work, apps and social networks.  In the rat race that we all get into we forget to show affection to our loved ones.  We forget that families have expectations we fail to understand. We are blinded in our own world in which we perceive our families expectations. We are overwhelmed in our misconceptions that we know better of what our family needs.  If only we make a small effort in understanding our families needs from their perspective every home will become a better place.  Sin or boon is in the way we would lead our life.  In marriage we share our life, which implies our better-half has all the right and responsibility to influence our life.  Give equal right and responsibility to  your better-half and learn to forget and forgive.  After all its your life you are trying to take control over and that can be possible only when you treat your better-half like your own.  You have the right to argue and fight but you also have the responsibility to set it right.  Life without marriage would be a sin and married life can be a big win, if only you play by the rules of love.  

If only this article can influence broken hearts to re-unite, then it has served its purpose.

Ego is to some extent an essential quality but there is no harm in giving it up for your loved ones.  Break the ice and talk your problem, always spend time in understanding your loved ones, make some time to flatter some love lines. After all life is short and is meant to enjoy.